I've been fired from three jobs. Every time, somebody else picked the date.
The last one was IT systems and programming. That was the one that landed — not because of the money, but because of what it told me about an arrangement I'd been in for years and never once actually looked at.
I was good at the job. That turned out not to be the point.
I wrote one line in a journal not long after.
Do I want to sell my time, or own it?
Then I did nothing about it for a good while. And when I finally did move, I made money and lost it — three separate times.
So this isn't a story about working it out quickly.
It's a story about writing down the wrong question.
Because the question isn't whether you sell your time. Most of us do, for a long stretch, and there's no shame in it. The question is whether you set the terms — or inherited them by never looking.